Meet Your Therapist

Meet Your Therapist

Thomas Geressy, LPC
Grief Therapist

A Compassionate Guide for Your Journey Through Grief

My journey to becoming a grief counselor has been shaped by a unique blend of clinical training and a past life as a professional singer. This background in the expressive arts taught me to listen deeply—not just to words, but to the underlying emotions of sorrow, memory, and hope. It’s a skill I bring into every session, helping clients find their own voice amidst the silence of loss.

As a therapist specializing in grief, my practice is dedicated to supporting individuals navigating the profound challenge of losing a spouse. My style is warm and empathetic, creating a safe, non-judgmental space for your story. I believe in a collaborative partnership where we gently make sense of what’s happened while also lovingly challenging you to explore paths toward healing and peace.

My work is grounded in the belief that every form of expression has a place in healing. I am committed to providing steady, compassionate support as you carry your love forward and build a new future.

You Don't Have to Carry It All by Yourself

If you’ve lost your spouse, you already know that grief isn’t something you “get over.” It’s messy, unpredictable, and can feel like you’re carrying a hundred-pound weight on your chest. My first promise to you is that you don’t have to carry it all by yourself.

Our sessions are a dedicated space for your whole story—the heartbreak, the guilt, the cherished memories, and even the moments of unexpected lightness. This isn’t about pushing you to “move on.” It’s about finding ways to carry your love forward and allowing yourself to find moments of peace, and even laughter, again.

If you’re ready, I would be honored to walk this road with you, at your pace. Grief’s weight may never disappear completely, but together, we can make it lighter to carry. (And yes, you might just get an impromptu concert along the way—the front row seat is yours.)

A Partnership in Healing: What You Can Expect

Trust & Professionalism

Work with a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), giving you the peace of mind that you are in the hands of a vetted, ethical, and highly-qualified professional who is held to the highest standards of care.

A Safe Space for Your Faith

Your spiritual beliefs are welcomed, not ignored. My faith-informed approach means you have the freedom to integrate your relationship with God into your healing, using your faith as a source of strength and comfort in a way that feels right for you.

A Clear Path Toward Hope

My entire focus is helping you move gently from the overwhelming pain of today toward a future filled with a renewed sense of peace and purpose. Together, we will work to honor your husband's memory while helping you build a life you can embrace.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the purpose of the free 15-minute consultation?

This is a complimentary, no-pressure phone call that serves as a gentle introduction. It’s a chance for you to briefly share what you're going through, ask any initial questions you may have, and get a feel for our approach. It helps us both ensure that Heavenly Counseling is the right fit for your healing journey before you commit to a full session.

I don't live in Flower Mound. Can I still work with you?

Absolutely. While we love seeing clients in our Flower Mound, TX office, we are proud to offer secure online therapy (telehealth) to residents throughout Texas and Florida. All you need is a quiet private space and a stable internet connection to receive compassionate, expert support from the comfort of your own home.

What are your session fees and do you accept insurance?

This is a very important question. Our session fees are transparent, and we can discuss them with you during your free consultation. While we do not bill insurance companies directly, we can provide you with a "superbill" (a detailed receipt) that you can submit to your insurance provider for potential out-of-network reimbursement.

How do I know if I'm "ready" for grief counseling?

There is no "right" or "wrong" time to seek support. If you're finding it difficult to navigate daily life, feeling overwhelmed by your emotions, or simply feel you could use a safe space to process your loss, then you are ready. Grief counseling can be helpful whether your loss was recent or many years ago. Reaching out is a sign of strength.

What exactly is grief counseling?

Grief counseling is a specialized type of therapy focused on helping you process and cope with a significant loss. It is a guided process where you and a therapist work together in a safe, confidential space to navigate the emotional, mental, and practical challenges of the grief process.

How is this different from talking to my friends or family?

While support from loved ones is vital, a grief counselor is a trained, impartial professional. You can speak without worrying about burdening them, filtering your thoughts, or managing their reactions. We provide a non-judgmental perspective and specialized tools to help you understand and navigate your unique grief journey.

What is the difference between grief, bereavement, and mourning?

Grief is the internal experience—your thoughts and feelings in response to loss.

Bereavement is the state of having experienced a loss.

Mourning is the external expression of grief—the rituals, tears, and actions you take to honor your loss.

Counseling helps you with all three challenges.

I lost my spouse a long time ago. Is it too late to start?

It is never too late. Grief has no expiration date. "Delayed grief" can surface months or even years after a loss. Counseling can be incredibly effective at any stage, whether the loss was recent or in the distant past.

My loss wasn't a death (e.g., divorce, loss of a career, health diagnosis). Can you still help?

Yes. While our practice specializes in bereavement, the tools used in grief counseling are highly effective for processing any major life transition that involves loss. These experiences are a form of grief and deserve support.

What is the therapist’s role? Will you just listen?

Listening is a huge part of our role, but it's more than that. We are active partners. We will ask thoughtful questions, offer insights, provide education about the grieving process, and teach you practical coping strategies. We are here to guide, validate, and support you.

What if I cry for the entire session?

That is perfectly okay. Tears are a natural and healthy expression of grief. Our sessions provide a safe space for all emotions, and you will not be judged for them.

What if I don't cry? Is something wrong with me?

No. People express grief in countless ways, and not all of them involve tears. Some people experience numbness, anger, or process things more intellectually. There is nothing wrong with you if you don't cry.

Will counseling make the pain go away completely?

Grief counseling can significantly lessen the intensity and overwhelming nature of the pain, making it more manageable. The sadness of missing someone you love may always be a part of you, but it doesn't have to dominate your life. Counseling helps you find peace alongside the pain.

Is everything I share completely confidential?

Yes. Confidentiality is the cornerstone of therapy. Everything you say is protected by strict ethical and legal standards. The only exceptions are rare, specific situations where there is a risk of harm to yourself or others, which we are legally required to report.

How will I know if therapy is working?

You may notice subtle shifts over time. You might start to have more "good" days than "bad" days. You might find yourself re-engaging with hobbies or people, feeling less overwhelmed by triggers, or beginning to think about the future with a sense of hope. We will provide check-ins to monitor your progress on a regular basis.

Why is a credit card required on file?

To save time and keep our sessions focused entirely on your support, we require a credit card to be kept on file. Payments are processed automatically and confidentially after each appointment through our secure, HIPAA-compliant system.

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2201 Spinks Road Ste 118 , Flower mound TX 75022

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(940) 240-2234

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